My approach to coaching is not the traditional “tell me how you feel about that….”. Instead I act as your mirror. I KNOW that my clients have all the answers, just as I always have, but many times they are buried under the years of filters built up, perceptions and perspectives of others, fears and limiting beliefs, and so many feelings of what I “should” do v. what I want to do!
I am here to hold space for the amazing person I know you to be. I don’t work with clients that I don’t connect with, or that I don’t know unilaterally that I can help. That doesn’t benefit either of us. I know you can achieve and manifest everything that you truly want…our work together is about getting clear on what that is, why that is what you want, setting intentions and making it happen.
I am your mirror. Have you ever been given feedback that surprised you? I have…told that I was “cold” or “difficult to approach” or “I was scary”. I was always surprised….well, kind of. I knew that I was strong, that I was clear on what I wanted and was always willing to go after it, and that vulnerability was a word I would never use to describe myself. But I am also extremely generous and compassionate, I love my friends and family more deeply than words, I want people to enjoy spending time with me, and want to be surrounded by loving friends and family. So why weren’t others seeing and feeling that side of me? I was left asking…Now What do I do?
My waking moment came when a trusted colleague and friend was honest with me, and really gave me insight into the impact I was having on the team, and those around me…he held a mirror up for me to see how I was showing up in the world. It was the smack in the face I desperately needed but I had choices to make. Now What? Do I keep being the “me” I had created, or do I believe the feedback and adjust the me to have the impact I truly desired?
In being your mirror, I will ask you the tough questions, I will push you, hold you accountable, and ensure that you step into the power, passion and possibility that will allow you to take bold risks, jump out of your box, and have everything you dream of.
My waking moment came when a trusted colleague and friend was honest with me, and really gave me insight into the impact I was having on the team, and those around me…he held a mirror up for me to see how I was showing up in the world. It was the smack in the face I desperately needed but I had choices to make. Now What? Do I keep being the “me” I had created, or do I believe the feedback and adjust the me to have the impact I truly desired?
In being your mirror, I will ask you the tough questions, I will push you, hold you accountable, and ensure that you step into the power, passion and possibility that will allow you to take bold risks, jump out of your box, and have everything you dream of.
“DO NOT be passive in your personal development. Passivity is the lock on the cage of mediocrity. You must break it. You must engage with full intent to grow again; you must make a plan to learn more; stretch to higher levels of being and service; you must BE BOLD!”
-Brendon Burchard